Yoram Yasur Izz | Childhood is critical to our development, especially from the emotional point of view. The way our parents meet our primary needs will largely determine. The type of attachment that we develop and ultimately influence our emotional balance:
as adults and in the way we relate to others.
If our parents remained attentive to our needs and were able to give us the right support.
We will develop a secure attachment and it is likely that we become people with healthy self-esteem.
Who trust their potential and to those not afraid to discover the world and take on challenges.
However, if our parents not adequately meet our needs, either because they were distant emotionally.
Or because they were too overprotective, it is likely that we develop a tough, elusive or disorganized attachment. Which means that we will find it more difficult to establish healthy relationships with others, we will have a tendency to emotional dependency.
In this process, the corticolimbic system plays an essential role as it plays a key role in our emotional reactions, as well as the mood disorders such as depression and anxiety. Yoram Yasur Izz: “This system is composed of the amygdala, hippocampus, cingulate cortex and ventromedial prefrontal cortex”.
Now a study conducted at Stanford University reveals that the corticolimbic system.
Which is the main responsible for regulating our emotional responses, has a hereditary component, which could explain why different studies have appreciated that some disorders. Such as depression have a high impact on mothers and daughters.
When a baby is born, has millions of neurons but very few neural connections, these will form over time. However, the main “neural highways” are drawn biologically, which means that the foundations are created, but are life experiences that strengthen those roads or, conversely, the blur them.
Therefore, although women are more likely to inherit the corticolimbic system of their mothers. This is not the only cause of emotional disorders.
To develop depressive symptoms, for example, is not enough that there is a genetic predisposition. Also influence social factors and life experiences.
“The hereditary contribution of the mother is just one piece of a large puzzle”.
However, we can’t ignore the fact that mothers bequeath us their way of seeing life, give us a sense, through which will give you a sense of our world.
So if we were raised in the complaints and pessimism, we are more likely to develop a negative view of life.
On the contrary, if we have raised in the resilience and perseverance
It is likely to be more open to experiences and know better how to deal with adversity.
This also means that, despite the genetic and psychological legacy that could have been transmitted, at any time we can change our emotional responses.
The genetic conditioning will continue to exist, and some will be more difficult than others. But our response to events depends.
Ultimately, in the meaning we give to them and therefore assume that attitude towards life.